It may be better not to second guess...
Seared steak
The smell of heaven and the gentle touch of the smoke through the food, oh my.
Expensive handbag
Since when is a handbag worth more than the annual income of nearly half the people in the world
Neighbours
Often there are controls on how much of a hard time you can give your neighbour
Tortured soul
Love does indeed heal all wounds. This is important because in the real world there are plenty of sharp objects, missteps, trips and falls. Just being in it presents a risk. Add an ego and torture is inevitable...